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90 Date Night Questions for Christian Married Couples: Liven Things Up

|by | Date Night Activities/Exercises, Intentional Marriage, Thoughts From Katie

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After years of marriage, you and your spouse know each other so well that it’s easy to get comfortable and forget there is still so much more to learn about one another.

It can become difficult to continue improving and deepening your relationship.

The mundane, “how was your day?”  is important, but it does not tell the full story. Nor does it necessarily meet the need for deeper communication.

Throughout our relationship my husband has made a point to ask fun, creative, and deep questions to get us talking. It means a lot to me and definitely adds quality to our time together.

Even if you’ve known each other a long time, even if you assume you know the answer, ask anyway. It’s good to hear what you already knew in your spouse’s words, and you may just be surprised.


90 Date Night Questions Printable

These questions are intended to deepen and stretch your relationship. Please understand that some of them may be hard to ask and answer, but they’re crafted from the belief that being humbly open and honest is best.

Many of the questions are playful and fun. Each date card contains a mix of both.

This download includes 90 questions, divided into 9 different date night cards. Each card contains a mix of lighthearted and deep questions.

They are intended for Christian married couples, so if your dating but not married, simply make the needed adjustments.

From there, be creative and think of your own! Start the tradition of asking each other questions!

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Also check out our Marriage Purpose Statement Date Night Activity!

Date Night Activity: Creating a Marriage Purpose Statement and Why It's Important


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10 Comments on 90 Date Night Questions for Christian Married Couples: Liven Things Up

  1. Kirsten
    September 12, 2014 at 5:30 AM (2 years ago)

    Fabulous timing! We are going on our first date in about three month (gotta breastfeeding baby, no family in the area. Makes it tough). The times we get away, we tend to talk about work (same company) or the kids and I’d love for us to talk about “real” things. I’m so going to pull this out!
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    • Katie Bennett
      September 14, 2014 at 10:59 AM (2 years ago)

      I’m so glad to hear it! I know what you mean about tending to talk about work/kids on dates. That’s exactly why we started coming up with these questions. I hope your date went well!!

  2. Crystal
    April 30, 2015 at 1:36 PM (1 year ago)

    I am hoping to share this in my lifegroup tonight. How long does it take to get the actual question list?

    • Katie Bennett
      May 1, 2015 at 10:02 AM (1 year ago)

      Just seeing this. You should have received it by now if you put in your email. Did you get it in time? If there was any problem let me know and I’ll email you directly.

  3. Estela
    October 15, 2015 at 7:20 PM (8 months ago)

    Hi! I am part of a group preparing a marriage retreat to renew or vows and refresh our marriage. I am looking for fun questions and activities for the couples. Could I use your questions?
    Thank you.

  4. Rachel
    January 21, 2016 at 7:48 PM (4 months ago)

    Hi, How could I get your list of questions?
    Thanks! 🙂

    • Rachel
      January 21, 2016 at 7:52 PM (4 months ago)

      nevermind, the link worked!

  5. Cecile
    March 20, 2016 at 2:51 AM (2 months ago)

    Hello there! Thhis blog post couldn’t be written much better!
    Reading through this post rrminds me of my ptevious roommate!
    He always kept talking about this. I’ll send this information to him.

    Fairly certain he wilpl have a great read. Thank you for sharing!
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